Anonymous asked: Well, just to say it: the TV, movies, and music do seem to pretty much say "Humping = Love". It couldn't possibly be that people need to make strong emotional bonds with good communication to maintain a lasting relationship. Then again they know you are a girl and you are on the internet, so they probably just want to think you are humping. Eh, what can you do?
Oh believe me, I know how people think and act about it.
There’s a screen in between which tends to make the nicest people act like a total dipshit online, because they can just say whatever they feel like and not be ashamed or worried bout getting a punch in the face.
It just saddens me that so many people seem think that relationships revolve around sex and nothing else. Sure, there is love, trust, companionship, etc, but all that can’t be worth anything without a daily portion of banging.
If people find sex to be such an important factor in a/their relationship (don’t get me wrong though; I LOVE sex), so be it, I completely understand. But I just find it rather disrespectful to come up to me ask me, or anyone, and assume I can’t wait to jump my bf and/or don’t take me serious when I say “Sex isn’t everything”. I’ve been called a liar for claiming the latter.